Andrew Saghy

About Andrew Saghy

My name is Andrew Saghy and I am a Life & Relationship Coach for more than 15 years. I have wittnessed quite a few couples on the brink of their divorce. In many cases I could help to save their marriages. This book summarizes my 15 years experience in the field.

Managing relationships are quite complicated and none of us were taught this art in the school. This is really sad, as relationships are the basis of our lives, and many other problems relate to problems at home.

Relationships have 4 different and predictable phases, like: Attraction - Power Struggle - Consolidation - Synergy - End of Relationship.The Power Struggle Phase can start many times over and over again, when major changes in life occur (e.g. children go to school, career change, go on pension, etc.). The Power Struggle Phases and the End Phase are the most problematic ones. In this phases quarreling, jealouy, blaming the other, become more and more frequent. Small issues seem very big and we blame the other for everything.

In the book I want to show you that we can handle even the "big" problems and more importantly we can prevent occuring them with some little changes in our lives.

Saving your marriage starts with a serious and honest investigation of the current situation. In the book I help you with a number of questions. Go through the questions (maybe with your spouse) and answer them honestly (be as honest as you are able to!)

The book continues with main marriage problems, tips and recommendations in each chapter.

• Start with the most important issues(Chapter 2):
  • do you trust each other? If not, you should learn some tricks and exrcises and practice them
  • an equally important issue in your relationships is how much do you respect each other - again you can learn and practice this skill with the advices given
  • how committed are you to maintain your marriage?
  • and the most important - how much do you love each other? Again you can learn and practice this skill
• How much time and effort want each of you to invest in maintaining your marriage? (Chapter 3)
• It is hard to believe but the small things count the most. Some little hugs, some kisses, some little gift (without reason) help much in saving your relationship (Chapter 4)
• In a marriage you have to spend much time with your spouse, you should have common activities together but equally important that both parties maintain their independence on certain areas (Chapter 5)
• Anger, resentments - don't let them stow. The key is: forgiveness (Chapter 6)
• In some cases the couple can't solve the problems on their own. There is still a solution: meet the professionals (Chapter 7)

This book is jam-packed with useful tips, advices, exercises, practices I collected in the last 15 years. Not just read but practice them!!

And finally I would like to give you a gift. If nothing else helps, I would like to offer you two a 30 minutes absolutely FREE Coaching Session to explore your problems, blocks and reveal the next possible steps. On the link below you will find a short (less than 5 minutes) video with me and you can book your 30 minutes FREE Coaching Session as well.

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Please, read and use this book and you will see improvements in your relationships.

Best Luck!

Andrew